It's Bobbie's World

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Dating to marry...at this point, maybe..maybe not

Saturday, October 9, 2010

I've been out of the dating game for a long time now.  It has been about 8years since I have been in a monogamous relationship. You may ask...what are you waiting on? What's wrong with you, etc..  Absolutely nothing is wrong with me. I have actually enjoyed this time by myself. It was much needed, and it could not have come at a better time.

Now, there is nothing wrong with being single.  I think all women at some point in their life should experience being by themselves.  I have had the pleasure of experiencing both worlds...being single for some years and living/dating someone for those same amount of years.

Yes, I have met guys that I have liked, some I didnt like or I just simply wasn't the chosen one.  This time being single has given me time to take a look at myself and work on the areas in my life that needed to be worked on, so that I can be all I can be to my man and to my relationship. (I sound like the army commercial, huh?...lol)

At this point in my life, I am ready to date.  Hell I been ready-I think. But do I want to date just to date or do I want to date to marry?  That's the million dollar question.  I still have some figuring out to do.

See, I am  no spring chicken, nor am I an old hen.  I still have some good quality years ahead of me and I would love to spend it with someone of substance, but I'm not sure if I want to be married. I am  also aware that it's the godly thing to do as well.  Can't we just love someone, be happy and live happily ever after without being married? Check out Oprah and Steadman. Momma always said "if it aint broke don't fix it"

I have decided to just go with the flow of the relationship at that time. I will keep you posted

~B

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